Pet

I hate pet names. I hate when I start talking to a guy and he immediately calls me hun, honey, babe or baby.


This is very hypocritical of me because I call all the men on my team, baby. That is to avoid bruised egos.


When they call me baby, it doesn't feel like a cute pet name. I haven't earned that name and they haven't earned the right to call me it. It feels slightly degrading. But I'm used men treating me as a pet. Even the men in my family treat me like a little girl in a man's world. That's what baby says to me. It very clearly suggest that you don't want to learn my name. It also suggest that I am now your play thing to control. In the world, I am dominate. I like doing things myself because they'll get done right. I like being the one who pursues the men. I attract them to me. I am always in control.


In the bedroom, however, I am completely submissive. Men who call me baby, want me to submit completely to them all the time. They think they can treat me how they want. They can call me what they want. And I will comply to their complete and utter disrespect; I will not.


Being a submissive does not mean I want to be treated like trash. I will not blow you in a pitch black garage, two seconds after I get out of the car. I expect them to respect me and my boundries. I DO NOT like any sort of race talk. I don't compare my men by race except to distinguish who is who. (Because who wants to read their name in a sex blog.) So when asked if I prefer white dick over black, while I'm about to go down on you, your ego will be hurt. I don't mind stroking egos, amoung other things, but I don't do asshole behavior.


When I submit to someone, I like being their little slut; I am also naked. They are going to do all the things I like and we will do what they like too. I like being choked when he's going deep, I like slapping me and claiming me; I am also naked. When I am naked, I am your pet because sex is a game and the rules are there. Once we are dressed, you may leave and control is surrendered back to me.


So in conclusion, I am not your pet or your baby, I just play one when I'm naked.