Sunday, May 28, 2017

Harassed

Sometime in December of 2015, a friend of mine introduced me to a guy who was looking for a job here. She gave me his contract information because I have a jobs group and could probably help. 

After having one conversation with this man, it became extremely apparent that he hated women and was crazy. He verbally attacked me about my relationship with my girlfriend. He verbally attacked my friend because she didn't want to have sex with him. 

We both blocked him from social media. Unfortunately his fragile ego was bruised by us not letting him continue to berate us. So he left several awful messages in the jobs group including his catchphrases "dyke, monkey ass hoe, your cakes in them jeans, that's the problem with black feminist" and so on. I removed him from the group. 

Every 2 months or so he creates new profiles and joins other groups in order to attack her or I. 

He is attacking her on Facebook and WeChat to this very day. 

His most recent attack against me was in a food group. Some people wanted to know what I did to make him so angry. Some told me to ignore him, others suggested responding. 

In the end it doesn't matter what I do, he's always there trying to fight me verbally because he can't get to me physically. This man lives in China like I do but in a different city. If he did come to my city, I have no doubt in my mind what he'd do. 

He is dangerous. He is crazy. 

But I'm not scared of him. I'm not afraid of a coward who's only joy is belittling people. Who is so insecure that a woman saying NO was enough to crush his spirit and send into a psychotic break.